Category Archives: Women

Second Marriage & Society


The tingling of anew life

a new sun, horizon …..

she found second love

new vows again,

everyday she went through

the roads of prickled thorns

for choosing to live with new love

breaking her first vows of many years

questioned for choosing

to live life on her terms!

How fair is it

that a Society chooses

to storm her life

with questions to what she chooses

to do with her Life!

 

The Burning Flame!


What is the one burning issue which makes me sit and think is the rising insecurity and intolerance that is shown against women by the perpetrators.

Living in India, one of the populous rounding upto a figure where we as a nation beats even any developed country, why can we not do something good as a society and a community for not only once but most of the time! Why not we all become some responsible citizens of our nation and help each other without throwing the ‘mud’ on the Netas/ Politians or any other ‘Powerful people’. Can we become a Nation where when I have my children and by God grace have a Daughter not have to think what will happen to her, will she return safe, will she be fine with her male friends!

I donot want to live in my own Nation in the fear making presumptions and assumptions and perceptions what will happen to me when I cross the threshold of my ‘secured home’. My loved ones and well-wishers love me and care for me, but Am I so weak or fragile that I should be the ‘victim’ of the situations and booed down by the society when the accused or the pervert males ‘hunt’ for more victims to be preyed on!
Will there be a STOP and an ANSWER to the questions I as a female GENDER can have. Can I have some respect and humility which I should stop asking for ! Why is ‘I’ a female have to keep on fighting for my simple rights; is not the Constitution of my Nation say ‘equal rights to both the genders’ then why is that before my birth and after my birth Iam always in constant FEAR in my own Neighbourhood, Profession, Society.

Why do I have to be the Sita as in the Mythological Story Ramayana, where Rama being the husband and Sita honouring her husband’s decision was living in the forest and after Sita was rescued from the Villian Ravana, Why was she asked to prove – if she was pure enough and never been malingned by Ravana. In reply, Sita requested Mother Earth to open her womb and take her inside the Earth. If Rama was not even sure about the ‘PURITY’ of Sita he should not have gone on War at all!

When do I as a Female make any moves which makes it an easy way to malign my ‘character’ and ‘traumatize’ my heart and let be with the ‘heart break’ that I cannot ‘TRUST’ and have FAITH in any MAN! Why not on Earth we have some respect Man! Is it way to much that we as females ask for!

Strong Women


Women go through a lot of changes and evolution to look the way they are presentable and multi – tasking in their day to day dealings. A girl is a person who seems to be a ‘touchy’ ‘dramatic’ and have a sentimental and emotional touches in her life, but after crossing that cover of the book there comes a person who really is making her day look as perfect making all the things move in a right direction. Crossing some of the boundaries and pushing her limits to make an approach more viable and worthy the more. We all keep moving in our lives but their is something very ‘charismatic’ about the ‘strong women’ we meet in our life. They know that they have to step each step in the ladder and make things move and fall in their place.

Women who are ambitious are not only the women who make it or the intelligent lot who always make it. It is the women who love to take a step and decisions in a way which will make a difference to the place of their working. Its not all the hard work or the smart work that keep on moving their positions to the top most role they get into but there is a way in which they started as team player at the starting of their life which made the impact in their life and then their game rolled on! Every one comes to make an impact and a difference in the role and lives they want to touch by in a way which is remembered always but very few are the people who can really work and reap those plants which they have once sowed!

Question is not how they do it but how is the difference of the impact in which one makes a change in the lives of so many people they really touch! I really consider Mother Teresa, Margaret Thatcher, Opera Winfrey, Angela Merkel, Christine Lagarde, Indra Nooyi, Chanda Kochhar, Vinita Bali, Kiran Mazumdar-Shaw.

It really matters how one has to know and do and act and react to the situations and challenges and circumstances which not only makes emerging leaders but top influential individuals which makes a difference in the lives of a life time count. Believe it or not the people who have worked with them and are working with them are learning and experiencing the way they view the world will be moving in a progressive manner to make an effort today and tell everyone the day will be better in all ways is a hope that mostly our mom’s have taught us! Females are always considered the multi-tasking individuals and want to be a progressive change thinker in their own families too, so accessorized with education and how the change can be of an impact lives around their loved ones and community and continents around the world do give a chance to make the vitualized impact!

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