Sometimes my head runs with so many thoughts where the words are running from the left lobe of the brain in the neurotic search of a better counter-part to do the research on my right lobe of the brain cells which seems to be less focusing or might be least interested on a particular ‘uneventful day’ to speak of! Dreams seem to be scarce and find that I am dreaming the same episode again and again, making my mind have a thought what is the matter that my creative juices have run out off which is great needs of nourishment from the Nature. There are days when I end up speaking way to much which is less focused and intended on doing something resourceful rather than discovering the new actress and their fashion statements to be discussed without much of a choice.
I would rather like myself to be alone at times for hours so that some particular and refined words can pass through the window and I can catch it like the ‘fire glow worm’ start playing with the idea. How incredible will be my life without the words which I need to keep on experimenting with all kinds of other words to make it sound alright as I am by no means a Perfect person so my words are not perfect. I seriously have dull moments where I can not think of a beautiful word which can be played with least written about. I end up with days where I just do not want write a word where I get way too moody or lazy! Yes! by all means I am born with these two important qualities to keep me ‘moving’! 😉
Rest assured I believe in the determination of ‘The Terminator’ where I can set a goal plan for the couple of days work on I earnestly.
So it is the right lobe of my brain that is making me write all the words or to please I would mention it is ‘helping’ me as I am a Right-handed person!
My best topic of thought process where I keep floating with buoyancy is If Sir Issac Newton did not find out the ‘Gravitational Laws’ than how would I know that birds will never fly under the water and fishes will never swim in the Sky. The apple will always fall on the ground when it is rotten and not when it young and ripe! 😉
So finally the D-day has arrived “Valentine Day”.
Love blossoms with the youth and happens to move in almost like a remote which is fast forward rewinding happening in the Life. To young but a ‘fashionable’ space where every youngster is looking for that One individual which will have a girlfriend or a boyfriend. The perfect is that they are not committing to the ‘commitment’. They try not to pressurize their life by the vows and promises they are not intending on to keep at the moment. They keep experimenting and experiencing at the age when I am sure I was busy tucked with my novels and study books. The youngsters that I observe are to be at the average age between 16- 20. They are the most vulnerable to many risks and to the mishappenings and accidents in the name of Love. The victim can be a boy or girl who ever is seriously trying to mean the ‘commitments’. So prefer to tell all the youngsters – just enjoy being pampered by your boyfriend or girlfriend. Never try to imitate the person you are not. Never look at the riches and brands. Waste no money of your parents on your girlfriend or boyfriend. Earn it and duly spent wisely! Rest we need to experience for ourselves and not learn from someone who never experienced the adventure of being in Love! ;-D
What happens to persons who fall in love at the age after the have found the perfect job and home and car? These people keep on looking every place on this ‘Beautiful World’ to find that perfect person to settle down. Why? Since their wise folks wanted them to focus on studies and look for that perfect job as love will happen when they have everything called the ‘Status of the Identity’. Is it so? I am afraid but have to say that nothing happens on the late hours when One did not even try out a single adventure so much focused on the world of theories of Algebra and no one is Dr. Leonard Hofstadter of The Big Bang Theory who has the most ‘amazing Charisma’! Now it happens the girls or the men are found running for a commitment since they did not give time at that point of time.
But surly Love happens to the individuals who were not even looking for love at any place even in the Jungles of the Amazon or the Kalahari Desert. I believe it just happens when God whom I belief thinks it is time to not sit and be watching that movie – The Ugly Truth with that favorite chocolate bar or single man for that matter watching that soccer match with a beer bottle! It really sucks! 😦
I have a great thought that I pass on to singletons boys and girls ‘ look around for the Adventure, just do not read that adventurous book! When one has an adventure outside then the Heart will know what One is looking for and will surly find it with the Grace of God. But do not sit and think that the Prince Charming will find you when you are tucked in the blanked and watching-P.S.-I Love You! Be the Cindrella who took that risk of daring to be brave and she spent sometime with the Prince of her dreams and the Prince came after her!’ That’s Love when One seeks one will find.
Do not look in the wrong places for sure and make sure you do not fall a prey in the name of Love. Do not be the victim as One might be weakened by the Predator that no one will love you again. Break the bondages and chains if you are in it. Because the purity of the Soul and Love will always make you free as a Bird who is not caged in the Golden Cage but is free to fly out and come in and always stay in the Heart of the Beloved.
So fall in Love, Be in Love. Love the Sweetheart with whom you are sharing your Love for many years. And for all the singles keep looking for Love nothing is a wastage of energy until you have not seeked.
Happy Valentine’s Day! Love To all of You! 😀 🙂
Wow I posted my 300th blog, time passes by and I did not really realize I had written in this two months.
Looking back it was always I am skeptical and wondering will my words make ‘sense and sensibility’. Writing seriously for me is like a stress buster and gets me to the place where I am in World of words where every emotion and feeling is transferred amazingly with the great depth which I always look forward too. What is that pushes me to writing is the fact that I started writing poetry as a Child and showed it to my Dad who told me to give more time to the creativity. But it was all lost once studies became ‘prime time show’ of my life and running after that great Job!
It seems everything again had to set in the path and I started writing again. It was never I wrote I always maintain a Diary from childhood I just love it, no dark secrets for sure 😉 Time and again could never think of it and lost it in the depth of the Sea mind of mine that will never be able to get in touch with it.
Thank God for that it again resurfaced and I started focusing on it for I wanted to get the thoughts in the permanent ink. Love it I must say.
Blogging is perfect because all the individuals I keep on meeting via Blogsphere are all Creative and Unique in their field. There is so much interesting things which is shared every day for learning which is truly ‘Valuable’.
To appreciate a Flower one has to step outside to the garden and see the flower from all the dimensions to the degrees one can see, touch the petals, smell the perfume which it is sharing and feel the beauty which is making the garden look beautiful.
So we have to enable and venture out and think of many ways in which we all can share and appreciate as well give dimensions which are being found every time in the mind and thoughts which are put into words and passed on to the post.
Creativity flows from open doors and gets in touch with every soul and like minded persons who are in their ways contributing and thinking of different ways to get the creativity understood. Some one surly had to venture out one day and that day was the great day as some one dared to take risk and adventure out in the open field which was not known to many. So speaks the Creativity in many ways have to be dared and accepted by many people who not able to understand the flow of it.
Survival of the fittest happens only when a person has attributes which makes the person change, transform and adjust in severe conditions around the surroundings. The changes only are not physical mostly, but more in thought process. How does a person see and observe and adapt in times worse.
The greatest example that I always see are the victims who are the survivors of the Holocaust. It is a bitter experience for the people who had experienced. Nothing worse than that has ever made me have jitters when I watch any movie about it. But to see the people who survived is what is worth learning to me. How does one keep oneself composed and patient and tolerant to all the injustice happening which was so inhumane. What really makes me think is that the people who survived brought in themselves the skills which made them to modify and learn techniques to keep them surviving. Yes, I do believe in destiny but what really has kept the destiny of those who survived is the adaptability to change and transform at that bitter period of time.
What makes or breaks a person is the ability to change, adapt, patience and tolerance. Patience arrives too many who were never patient in their life but something really changes and makes them think that the need of the hour to keep going is to change or transform with patience.
Life will never remain the same for many a lot of people who were survivors of the Holocaust. What really is more important is the fact that the people were very positive to be able to keep themselves in the surviving conditions. What affects Life is how one changes in times which are not pleasant in any form. I am sure many of us have seen experiences in Life which we still feel ‘why me, God?’ But God wanted to see are we worth the people and so the experiences which were more of a learning experience for most of us. I am sure we all have a tale with us! 🙂
Do not surrender and say fine I will not leave and so bring the beautiful life to an end. Instead work on the aspects which can make you the ‘The New You’. Suprise the people who never thought you could transform for the better of yourself and surely not for them! Remember that. Question is not will you work on it but the question is how far can you take it.
My experience with the bitterness was that two years before I always thought will I ever Smile. It became the biggest fear I will never smile again, I watched humour and could never laugh so yes, the pain which drifted me most of the time to some Lone island. But something hit me I reconciled with thy self and yes I know within that I ‘transformed’ not even changed. I laugh and can joke around make the gloomy ones happy and keep the positivity within me and around the people who are drifting to that space. It really took time to transform to see self in the mirror from 😦 to :-)! Glad I could make it. The best part is some of my friends are like ‘how did you make it? We thought you might never make it.’I just answer ‘I am a great fan of POSITIVITY!’ :)That is kind of survival where one might just not know in deep thoughts an weak point can think of taking away the breath which God has gifted to do better things.
So I end the story of the survival skills with survival instincts where One will have greater positive thoughts and germs intact that one will adapt, be patient, be tolerant to the surroundings, will learn skills to be a Hero oneself, to fight fear and take every measure to survive!
Chanel one’s spirit and soul directly to the work you intend to do and actions one has thought of. Never look back and give a stare to the people who are mocking you. They have indeed no idea what you are instinctively alarmed about that makes you work around for the benefit of many a races. Do not feel ashamed of your work, each person has a first day to what it has to do creatively what should be important is your know-how about the subject and how you tackle and share your invention back to the people. Never give up in the middle path once you have started with it. Rise above the many who questions your objective and let time pass and excel in your creative venture. Let the critics praise then and appreciate it.
Let your fear met with adventure you never thought of undertaking. Fear once fought half of the battle is won. What next is the path till you are assured that you can share your work with the known and unknown. Let negativity at the beach and tell it to bask the sun rays which it never really does.
Look forward to positivity always like you never have met negativity in life. One’s own acknowledgement to positive outlook will always assure you that you are doing the right thing and on the right path. Look out for the analysis that gives you immense satisfaction to the work you are doing. Creativity is a field where some one will find something very new each moment. Leave nothing for tomorrow if you have the findings today.
As a writer always write when the words start flowing from the mind through the fingers to the permanent ink. One will find many persons doing something new in the creative field every single moment, I too get awe struck when I feel I have to know such many things most of the time.
Lastly never judge your work and appreciate the critics work, one’s instincts will tell if one is doing the right thing or not!
Noun is to name
Pronoun explains by itself
Preposition the bridge
Adjective to modify
Verb ability to action
Grammar is the basis of languages whose existence came times immerorable, never ever get bad marks in your basics in Grammar. Without Grammar literature and Poems can never really work so well. To the great legends who worked hard and smart enough to provide the Grammar with the sentences I am writing to the way I speak verbally.
*Incase I missed on the basics do share and correct me.
Opportunities of a life time comes when it suddenly arrives and we are found in midst of some ‘not going to have time’ kind of business in Life. But what should be done needs to be done we love the opportunities which we were aiming for. Good for us to know what we should be doing.
Accept nothing less when you know what you have set your eyes onto. Life never stops for the whinning babies. So support your dreams in a phase and keep working on it like an ANT. Why an ant since it is so hard working and smart working and determined in achieving the mission it has set on before the winters arrive. 🙂
Look out for the options which you never set your thought on, without that beautiful dream that you have on your mind and the brain working on it, you will never be focusing on the goal post.
The opportunist will take the opportunity without much of strategy and research, but if you are not one of the many opportunists then make sure you have enough ideas to carry yourself forward time and again. Believe and faith with the composed determination to set the dream into reality seats in our own hands. So donot lose any further time and set your path and cross all the hurdles which we intend to fear. Life has nothing to do with us if we never overcome fear. So that aspect of life has to be done with the better the sooner.
In case one wonders how the path will be while walking alone donot fear as many strangers will walk time to time to accompany us in this journey of the opportunity we are going to set the mark on. Blessed are the souls who will make us strong and provide with the warm wishes now and then when we are no longer visionary ourselves!
So believe in the dream which you have in our heart and keep working on it, because One never knows when opportunity comes at the Door and says “Hello”.
I always wondered how can a person set an example, and Yes a day arrives in each individual’s life when the opportunity knocks the door and it questions “would you like to do an action or be a mere viewer like the rest of the many people?” Some set aside and think and being not able to decide what to do say that we would be neutral and take no sides of the people who takes action and the reactions the other side takes. So that is decided. Now comes the dart on the people who are always eager to set an example on doing something too much anxious on the idea of the ACTION. By default they have no idea that their actions will set a good example or set a reaction which they never dreamed off! True to their Mars on which ever action house of their horoscope they set out on the battle field with out strategically planning and having no research done on the work. So they end up being on the wrong side of ‘Setting An Example’ which should have a positive impact on many. I would like to add that there are many people who think that manipulation and taking advantage and or taking granted of an individual can set an example. I am sure most of us have gone through certain such phases in Life.
But the persons who will take actions in the right sense to ‘set an Example’ are the people who will be wise enough to share the right words and thoughts at the moment needed and required. It necessarily doesnot have to come through age but certain experiences in a Life time of small span can bring a person to the maturity which lets the person speak and let the others know what is right sometimes by doing the wrong thing in the masses and doing the perfect right thing when in times of risk and guts needed.
So in Life try to set examples which I entirely wondered how can it be done, but there are times when the Universe gives the opportunity to set an example it is that right moment when one should know how to make the right impact and follow one’s instincts and guts!
Rise above every obstacle and show the World the true sense of commonsense and confidence with risk taking and guts what an example One can set with an wise sense. 🙂
Happy as a Child to accept the Awards. It is really amazing getting goodies for good work shared and people across the Continents inspire and give a lot of patience to an Amateur to be understand and develop in the chosen field.
It is appreciable and incredible and Inspiring how many people wants to share the knowledge and patience in the creative field.
If it was not for the first baby steps I had taken with the help of coaxing of my Dear friend I would not have seen this Day that is for sure. Love You for that my Dear Friend. 🙂
Inspiration does come from the needs one has or the neccessities one has or the struggles one had or the Nature or the mind and Heart is giving into.
Whatever the flow of inspiration might be, what really is important that One should not forget about the dream which is holding so dearly. The day might be a struggle but at the night there is the Full Moon and the stars which gives the Light that shines above the sky and the crickets which are singing the song which can never be heard in all the humdrum of the Noise. Leave no stone or a pebble unturned when one knows what One wishes to be be what has the world or the Society to do if they donot understand the vision One wants to create. Why did I mention the word Create because it is Creativity which makes a person sleepless and follow the dream so insanely that the friends sometimes make fun of you. But within Heart One knows what one is set to do so keep One’s will power strong as well be determined because without these two words One might not be able to reach the middle path of the vision one sees and has insight off!
The other word is the Focus, never lose the focus the Aim one watches Self in that light which is making one follow the path in the deep dark forest. It is terrifying at times to be alone in the forest all by self because sometimes creativity asks for solace which One needs. It has nothing to do with the nature of the person that is – introvert or extrovert. We might be what ever natural traits and characteristics we are but when it comes to creative forces One surly needs Solace the need to be with oneself and Nature most of the time. Great poets, story writers and musicians all creative geniuss’ found solace within themselves and Nature so that create poems, stories and music which we all love till date. I am sure most of you will agree with that.
So keep inspiring yourself everyday, never forget to be in tune with the positive forces which we all have within self. Forget about the people who mocks us they have no idea what we are upto so let them find their own solace and peace.
I am thanking all of the Blogging Community in helping me communicate through my words, to understand and appreciate an amateur like me is like building that invisible bridge.
Thank you belsbror for making my Day in the Wintery days and nights filled with all the warmth of happiness which I am sure you can imagine! 🙂 Everyone can have a look at the site – http://belsbror.wordpress.com/. It is a creative site filled with all the colors that words can mix and mold.
The three ways I love helping persons
* It is pure appreciation and kind words around the world which makes the world a better place to live in. So be kind to say some good words to who ever known or mere strangers, it so happens it strikes the right cord .
* When I help someone without the thought of being selfish it surely did happen and still happens that God sends his Angels from Heaven to ensure that I can cross the Bridge which I was fearing.
* Intentions can be many but when I give that smile I surly get back that smile from many others, try it but one needs to be patient!
Here are the rules for the Lighthouse Award:
Display the Award certificate on your blog.
Write a post and link back to the blogger that nominated you.
Inform your nominees of their award nominations
Share three ways that you like to help other people.
There is no limit to the number of people that you can nominate.
Since there is no limit to how many I can nominate for starters I have nominated 12 Bloggers I am following.
The Nominees for the Lighthouse Award are:
I love reading their creativity and I wish to say that check their sites to know more about their work.
Happiness shared can bring peace within Selfie and kindness gives that happiness with an icing on the top is humbleness! 🙂
*It took sometime to post this, so thank you for bearing with me.
*I hope I am able to take note of the persons and follow their work to able to share the Awards with many more in the Blogging Community.